I’ve been thinking a lot about disagreements… what is the energy behind a disagreement? Or is there something about it that fuels growth, transformation… even more power?
And for that matter, what does growth mean? What does more power mean? Power as in electricity? Power as in “That was a powerfully moving movie”… In this case, maybe a bit of both.
As this year is wrapping up, looking back i’ve seen many different shared experiences i’ve had with different people. In fact, those shared experiences, both good and bad, are what make up a large part of this year. Other events sometimes look like riding planes, trains, playing video games… and yet even those are shared experiences with people.
And in some of those relationships, the energy has been a bit juxtaposed… meaning, crossed from each other, at odds with each other.. poised in a space of clashing and destruction, rather than a space of creation and manifestation.
Kind of a feeling like “Hmm.. no, that doesn’t really work for me. Can we try something else?” at least on my end, and with at least a handful of people.
I’m really interested in this from the perspective of.. is this inherently wrong? Does it have to be a bad thing? Or Mayhaps there’s something more going on than just that.
You know, a VERY important discussion that fits here is “What exactly are you disagreeing about? What is the root of the problem? If we can come to a space of awareness about every aspect, we can fix the problem…. and that’s something I’d like to go deeper into later on.
As I mentioned in a video I made previously, Cycles N’ Sine Waves… When you’re in a disharmonic state, it serves as a bridge towards that harmonic one. You can look at all of the ingredients, imagine what you want it to look like, and then take the actions required in order to create what you really want.
What that harmonic looks like… is up to you.
Sometimes it looks like coming closer together, and sometimes it looks like going farther apart.
I could push one or the other, and in fact, I am. I always do. But my advice for those of you who are learning and going through the same thing I am… know that just as you create your reality, so too do those you’re creating with. They get just as much a say as you do, and should you come together, you can create together.
Sometimes people just want to pull apart though… Sometimes it’s you, and sometimes it’s them. Sometimes it’s them and they’ll say that it’s you, and sometimes it’s you and you’ll say that it’s them. Sometimes it’s hard to even tell which is which in the moment, and the whole exchange deserves a grand amount of attention and reflection.
And no matter how hard you try to create a connection, if they’re not there (or you’re not), sometimes you have to just let go, and go a separate path for a while.
Perhaps on the reconnection the energy will be different, something may have changed, which could allow for a deeper, and more meaningful, honest connection than you ever imagined it could be as it is now.
I suppose the big question is… is a disagreement worth sacrificing a friendship and relationship for? Can we overcome all of the obstacles and grow closer together? Or is this destined to go with the “easier” option of separating and sweeping it all under the rug.
I would very much like the former of those two options… But i suppose both of us will have to make that decision.
As You Will,